What started as a blog about our family moving to France for a year with the goal of learning French, connecting with family, and re-focusing our future, has now evolved into a blog about our Californian family deciding to start a new life in France. A more balanced, simple, and family-focused life.....we hope! Join us as we navigate the ups and downs of this decision.
Friday, August 26, 2016
Why France?
After
the initial (insert surprise emoji here) response from telling our
friends and family that we had decided to go to France for the year the first
question is why? Let’s start by saying
that my husband, Marc, is French and his entire family still lives there. Although we’ve gone to visit many times it
has never been longer than 2 or 3 weeks.
I have always been lucky to be close to my family and have grown up believing
in the importance of family. Once we had
kids it occurred to me that a 2 week holiday every other year with Marc’s
family was never going to be enough for the kids to feel really connected to
their French family. Once we had kids it
also occurred to Marc that he wasn’t going to be able to teach them
French. The back and forth between French
and English was too much. As much as he
tried to only speak French in the beginning it quickly defaulted to English
until eventually it was English all the time.
The final piece was a bit of a mid-life crisis I suppose for Marc. After being at the same job for over 20 years
he finally decided that he needed a break.
He was burnt out and his heart was no longer in it. So with those 3 ingredients it became clearer
and clearer that France was our solution.
It would allow a break for Marc, an opportunity for the girls to connect
with their French family, and an opportunity for me and the girls to finally
learn French. The decision was made and
now the gears were set in motion to actually make it happen.
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